Saturday, June 14, 2008

Aidan is NINE!

Aidan just celebrated his ninth birthday!

Aidan's sister Clare wrote a lovely tribute to Aidan at her blog A World Incalculable.

She also made a little b&w movie clip of them together. They have a great relationship.

Our dear friends in Northern California sent Aidan a cyber-tribute:

For My Friend Aidan


And Aidan and I wrote back: A Haven, with Cats!

Here is what Aidan would call a "geeky" picture of him and his little brother Paddy getting ready for one of our occasional tea parties : ).

Thursday, April 10, 2008

Two Children with Medical Conditions


(This is an old article I wrote for the CLASS newsletter. I'm moving it here from my general blog because it fits here better).




Aidan and Patrick

Our two youngest children, Aidan and Patrick, have the same birth condition. It is an extremely rare disorder called neonatal hemochromatosis, in which far too much iron crosses the placenta from maternal stores and is stored in the unborn baby’s liver, resulting in severe liver damage and often organ failure just before or after birth. The statistics are pretty grim – only about 10% of affected infants survive, and almost all of these require a liver transplant. The only bright side is that the organ damage is done in utero or just after birth, and so a successful liver transplant is a “cure” for the disease.

Normal Pregnancy

We have five older children, all healthy, and my pregnancy with Aidan was normal. It wasn’t until he was born that we knew there was anything wrong. He was less than five pounds at almost full term, and jittery and hyper-alert from an extremely low blood sugar. He spent two weeks in the nursery receiving antibiotics, though he did not test positive for any infection.


Home for a Week

After the antibiotic course, we brought him home, but only for a week. Aidan grew increasingly yellow, and though feeding often was not gaining any weight. He was admitted to our regional Children’s Hospital with a total bilirubin of over 20, and there an ultrasound revealed severe cirrhosis of the liver in our infant of only 4 weeks old. Plans were made to transport him to UCSF Medical Center; while waiting, he went into cardiac arrest. His lungs had filled with fluid – upon arrival at the UCSF PICU, he was diagnosed with ARDS, a severe form of pneumonia. At that time, we met Dr Rosenthal, the medical director of the pediatric liver transplant team, who gave us the diagnosis of neonatal hemochromatosis and let us know that at this time, Aidan was far too small and unstable to even be evaluated for a transplant. He would have to stabilize, and grow, even with a basically non-functional liver. It was difficult to hear, but we were so relieved to get a diagnosis and have a better idea of what we were facing.

Minute by Minute

So we waited… it was minute by minute for several days as Aidan went on a high-powered oscillating ventilator and retained fluid to the point where even his head was swollen. Friends and relatives from all over prayed for his survival. Miraculously, he did eventually stabilize and come off the respirator. Then it was up to the NICU for several months to grow – he had to be at least 5 kg, or 11 pounds, to be a candidate for a transplant, and at that point he weighed less than 3 kg. My husband Kevin was evaluated as a living donor, but his liver was too big for our tiny little son. We moved into an apartment in San Francisco to be closer to our little fighter and keep our family together as much as possible. Our older kids are homeschooled, and my husband works from the home, so it was not as difficult as it might have been to relocate at such short notice.

After the Transplant

Aidan did get his transplant at just barely 4 months old. He had a difficult time afterwards and ended up spending almost the whole of his first 7 months in the hospital. He had a stroke, due either to an infection or an intraventricular bleed, and for some time was completely paralyzed on his left side. Later on in his first year, he had some complications with bile duct strictures and had to have several surgeries and an antibiotic course for cholangitis. He had to get a G-tube at 1 year of age because he was not eating by mouth. In all, at this point he’s spent about a year of his four years bouncing in and out of various hospitals for various reasons. Because of his stroke, he has some developmental delays – he has difficulty walking and is just learning to speak in short sentences. He is a wonderful little boy with the eyes of an angel, and a great sense of humor. He loves songs, and rhymes and jokes. He has just come out of the hospital again after a month-long stay at UCSF for neurosurgery, and we are hoping that now he can get some healthy time at home to grow and thrive.

Patrick

When Aidan was almost three years old, we found I was expecting Patrick. We knew that the chances were high that Patrick would also have neonatal hemochromatosis. Statistically, once one child is born affected, the chances of subsequent children having the same condition are over 80%. My husband had corresponded by email with Dr Alex Knisely of Cambridge University UK and Dr Peter Whitington of Memorial Hospital in Chicago. Dr Whitington has been using an experimental protocol of IV immunoglobulin treatments for pregnant moms who had previously borne a child with neonatal hemochromatosis. IVIg is expensive, but fairly safe for mother and infant if administered with proper precautions. His results, though limited to only 12 cases at that time because of the extreme rarity of the disease, were excellent. All the babies had been born with high ferritin levels suggesting an iron storage problem like Aidan’s, but all of them had survived, and more than that, flourished without need of a liver transplant. This was a far better outcome than would have been expected with no intervention.

A New Protocol

Our genetic counselor Dr Cynthia Curry requested the protocol from Dr Whitington, and so every week from the 20th week of gestation until delivery at 36 weeks, I checked into the hospital for a course of IVIg administered over 4-6 hours. Patrick was due around Christmas, but was induced in early December because he wasn’t growing well. Like Aidan, he was low birth weight and hypoglycemic, but unlike Aidan he was clinically stable after his blood sugar was brought to normal levels, and his liver looked normal in an ultrasound. He did have extremely high ferritin levels, and his liver function tests were elevated. He was airlifted to UCSF a day after his birth, and received the same anti-oxidant and chelation therapy that Aidan had undergone pre-transplant. He also underwent evaluation for a possible transplant. Though we hoped for the best, it was a scary time, as so much of Patrick’s journey echoed Aidan’s.

Patrick Normalizes

Unlike Aidan’s, though, Patrick’s liver function and ferritin levels normalized over the next few weeks. . In fact, his iron levels dropped a little too low and he now takes an iron supplement. He was discharged from UCSF Medical Center on Christmas Eve and now, at age 14 months, is a healthy and lively toddler. He no longer needs to be followed by the liver transplant team. He is still seen by our local gastroenterology clinic and like Aidan, continues to be towards the bottom of the weight percentile chart, but other than that, medically he has been no more complicated than his older siblings. He has not even had an ear infection yet.

Two Survivors

We feel so blessed to have our two little survivors. Both of them have made us realize what a gift all of our children are. Aidan especially has endured so much with such courage and spirit. He’s kept his loving, gentle personality in spite of hundreds of blood draws and invasive procedures. We have learned to really enjoy those times when everything is going well and our family is together. When things are not going so well, we’ve learned to pull together and take each day as it comes. We’ve found friends and supporters from all over who pray and cheer for Aidan and Patrick, and we follow with heartfelt interest the journeys of other kids who are fighting medical battles. I know we are not the only family with more than one child with liver disease. If one medically complicated child’s care can be a daunting task, caring for two or more can be overwhelming. Our experience with that was limited, but we will never forget it.

Monday, April 7, 2008

Aidan's Hearing Test

Aidan had a hearing test today at the local school. The nurse who gave the exam was such a wonderful lady, warm and kind and interactive-- he really responded to her. He put on a set of earphones -- one red and one blue -- and then he was supposed to raise his hand whenever he heard the "bird tweeting". It was sort of a chirp in different ranges.

He kept his eyes locked on her the whole time trying to read cues. She laughed a couple of times and said, "Not yet Aidan!" He was raising his hand when there was no bird tweeting ;-). It was so interesting to see how intuitively she "read" his cooperative, humorous personality and figured out how to relate to him.

Anyway, her results confirm what we already pretty much knew. His hearing is just fine in his right ear. A bit of encouraging news with the left ear -- he could pick up sounds down to 50-60 decibels in the higher ranges and 65-70 in the lower ranges of pitch. Normal is <25 but still that means he does hear a bit in the left. Unless of course he could hear the right-ear signal in his left -- I forgot to ask her if that was possible.

She said she noticed how intently he "cued" off of her face and gestures and said that was a wonderful coping mechanism. That leads me to wonder -- when he seems the spaciest with a new person, is that because he isn't getting good clear signals from their faces or is averse to looking them in the eyes? In those cases he usually doesn't seem to hear or respond as well. There are times when he doesn't seem cued in to me either and perhaps it is when I am not "letting my countenance shine upon him". Also, there is such a thing as verbal clutter. A whole spew of directional, abstract words without much meaningful change of intonation seems to leave him clueless, and maybe this is one of the reasons why.

I will have to pay attention to that. It makes me recollect how he finally did learn to talk well. It was when I started to really pay attention to slowing down, looking at him and relating to him as we talked that he took off.

Friday, March 28, 2008

Eastertide

Aidan and his little brother and his big sister on Easter Day. Don't even ask about the feeding bag in the forefront of Clare's picture. Or if you do ask, ask Kieron, not me.

His oldest brother Liam was here. We missed him. Aidan kept saying, "We're going to Pat and Katie's and Liam will be there!" Positive thinking. It didn't happen, but Liam did call and describe his stay there a bit and called again to let us know he was back safely at college.

Clare cantored at Mass up at our little "station" chapel, and the two boys Kieron and Sean were altar servers. The Vigil duties (lighting candles and swinging incense braziers) was pretty stressful but I'm glad to say they got through it with no fires and no major glitches.

We got to provide the incense for the church service, which led to a new expression of Aidan's which puzzled his brother Brendan when he heard it:









"Quick, we have to go back home to get the incense!"



The next day we went down to Fresno to spend time with our Ryan and Molthen relatives. Paddy had fun playing with his cousin.


Then back up here to find what the "Easter squirrels" had brought in the Easter baskets.

Thursday, March 27, 2008

Okay!

Whew, I finally finished transferring all Aidan's Caringbridge entries from there to here. I wanted to have a better place for putting updates on Aidan that weren't just about his illness. I also copied the guestbook over and you can find it here.

I guess I don't have a guestbook feature on here but the comments work and also if you email me at highsierra12@gmail.com with your good wishes or comments for Aidan, I will add them to the guestbook page. I love having that record and hope to be able to share it with Aidan someday.
Saturday, March 17, 2007 1:15 AM CDT
Happy St Patrick's Day!

Aidan's still doing great! He is learning to sound out words and can write capital A's. We have about 50 A's written all over the dust coating on our mountain Suburban. He has finally learned how to count fairly reliably but right now he's obviously more of a literary type like his Mom than a math type like his Dad. However, in all other ways he is a somewhat battle scarred carbon copy of his Daddy.

He and his little brother Paddy are finally starting to click as buddies. One of their favorite activities is racing, as in the grocery store: Hey, let's race down the aisle. For this reason we like Costco which has the double seats on the grocery cart. It is called containment.

They will both be signing up for T-ball later today. Aidan keeps asking "When do I go to T'ball? Today?" It will come soon! He likes the thought of Paddy being a teammate. Paddy is young at four to enter the world of competitive sports but we are hoping that if they join together it will make it fun for both of them. Anyway, we'll get cute pictures and a T shirt and hat, at least.

Aidan's labs continue to be textbook normal, as the nurse said at his GI clinic last week. This is wonderful to hear every time. It will never be old to me.

Our snow is melting up here. This was the first winter Aidan has really been healthy enough and mobile enough to go out and really enjoy it. He is outside as much as he can be, sometimes dressed in shorts and his big brother's boots if I don't catch him : ).

The picture on the front page is of him in character in one of the home movies his older siblings like to make. He is the Inspector's assistant who catches the villain in this episode. You can tell he feels good about it.
Saturday, December 2, 2006 1:11 AM CST

Aidan has been doing so well recently that I haven't had much medical news to report! He had a kidney ultrasound and check-up that looked fine. He doesn't have to see the nephrologist again until next year. He just got a hand brace that helps him hold his left hand in a better pattern and hopefully use it more. Last week we had our first snow up here in the Sierras, and he has been out in it a lot. He even did sledding races down our driveway with his two brothers Kieron and Paddy. He just got to go to his aunt Kelly's house for Thanksgiving and had fun decorating sugar cookies and hanging around with his cousins and other relatives.

On Monday his little brother Paddy will turn four! And today is Aidan's half-birthday, come to think of it. Below is part of an email I wrote way back in January 2003, just after Paddy was born. Paddy had the same birth condition as Aidan -- neonatal hemochromatosis -- and was a sick little boy right after birth. They air-vac'd him to San Francisco and he was in the NICU for 3 weeks and came home on Christmas Eve.

I thought it would be interesting to compare, since we were having so many struggles back then. If you are visiting this page and have a child waiting for a transplant or just post-transplant, or with other severe medical difficulties, it might be difficult to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Our transplant coordinator told us that we would eventually get to the easier times, and she was right. But it took quite a long time.

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from January 2003

An update on our little boys:
Patrick — at one month of age, he is fine to all appearances. We haven’t had any follow up labs since he left the ICN on Christmas Eve so I can’t categorically say “He is fine”. He is a great baby –we couldn’t have asked for a better Christmas present. He has enough older siblings that he is hardly ever put down, and he is just starting to smile at us!

Aidan — he had to have a biopsy the weekend between Christmas and New Years. We both were with him during the day of the procedure — we brought Clare, who was invaluable as a Mommy’s helper for Patrick since poor Aidan took 7 tries to get an IV started this time. Kevin stayed with him overnight at the hospital — the preliminary results of the biopsy showed no rejection but they haven’t received the final word back from SF. He is still pretty yellow. This is the first time he has been jaundiced since the transplant and that has been scary. But his bilirubin has stabilized and his other numbers are also stable though still high.

Poor Aidan has been coping pretty well with what has to be the worst sibling displacement in history. …his mom disappearing for 3 weeks, constant driving back and forth from Fresno to SF, then a whole set of medical procedures of his own. Plus the seizure meds he has been on have affected his personality a little.

He thinks Patrick is a big joke — every time Patrick sneezes Aidan literally falls over laughing. Other than that, I’m not sure if he really understands that Patrick is not just a rather realistic stuffed toy! As for me — physically, fine except for not losing the pregnancy weight, maybe because we have been living on pizza and hamburgers and holiday food??; and except for waking up every 2 hours on the dot to warm bottles and administer them. Sleep deprivation has taken on new shades of meaning. Plus it seems to take 2 hands to hold a baby and a bottle (Patrick needs to be on a low-iron diet) so that leaves me needing a third hand in order to type emails ;-)